LOVE IS JUST LIKE A GAME

I want you to know that love is not blind, but it is just like a game;

**When you play a game with your eyes closed,

Then you should accept whatever result that comes out of it.

**When you play a game that you don’t know the rule,

Don’t complain because you don’t know any better.

**When you challenge a superior in a game and lose,

Simply acknowledge the superiority and pretend nothing happened.

BE LIKE A TEA LEAF

A young lady went to her mother and complained of the difficulties she is facing in life; and told the mother that she want to give up for it seems that she is the only one experiencing these difficulties at that level. The mother after hearing her took her to the kitchen and brought out three bowels.

In one, she put fresh carrots, in the other, she put raw egg and on the third one, she added grounded tea leafs. She then light up the gas and place the three bowels on it. She allowed them to boil for equal number of minutes. Then she brought them down .After this, she calls the daughter and ask her what she observed; and she said that she does not understand, that why is she doing this.

Then, the mother explained that these three items have passed through the same conditions but they reacted in different ways; the carrot was hard before being boiled but after that, it became soft. The egg looks fragile but after passing through the same condition became hard, then the tea, instead of being changed by the water, changed the water.

The woman then told the daughter to choose between the three items, whether she wants to be like a tea leaf, a carrot or an egg.

REASONS WHY I STOP MY CLOSENESS TO SOME PEOPLE:

1. They keep you in the dark about their matters yet you say they are close, they are mere acquaintances.
2. They always take you and your feelings for granted; they just might not take you the way you have taken them.
3. They allow little issues to destroy all that you share with them, be wise; they may not be for real.
4. Whenever it comes to you, they are always busy, be wise, people create time for what they value.
5. Why waste precious emotions on people who don't have your time while you ignore those who wish to embrace you with their two hands.
6. You adore them but they barely tolerate you, wise up, they are not your fit.
7. Relationship is a choice. Don't choose what will consistently hurt you.